#4: Write your e-mails as if they were a handwritten letter to be mailed
Who doesn’t remember the e-mail chains of the early 2000s? These long chains of e-mails, often useless and sent with a dubious purpose, to which people answered or worse, oversaw forwarding to their loved ones.
Although the phenomenon has lost its vigor over the last few years when taken in a social context, it seems to have become part of our professional context and has been gaining strength ever since!
An email is not a phone call or even a text message. It is certainly not a conversation between two people, it is only an electronic letter and a letter, by its nature, must be precise and concise. Imagine writing a handwritten request and then intending to mail it, hoping for a clear and quick response a few days later from the person who is to receive it. Think that if your request is poorly worded, the answer you receive could be a request for more details and thus, your dream of receiving the information you want in a timely manner would be lost.
In such a context (a context that existed not so long ago), where sending and receiving delays are important, you will try to write the most precise request possible, avoiding any ambiguity and taking care to direct the receiver where you want him to go so that he can adequately satisfy your request without a hitch.
Well, an email, although instantaneous, should meet the same requirements. Of course, we all lack discipline, so it is often not the case and the result are poorly formulated, imprecise and paraphrased requests, but why? Because we tell ourselves that in the worst case, the receiver will ask us for clarification. After all, sending an email is a piece of cake!
The result is often an interminable exchange of e-mails on the same subject, with each new e-mail sent introducing new ambiguities into the current exchange, thus lengthening the processing time of the initial request and increasing the stress level of the parties involved.
Do yourself (and anyone you involve in the exchange) a favor and work upstream, not downstream, always making sure you have the same discipline you would have had with a conventional letter when writing any email. The few extra minutes you will spend before sending will be returned to you and even more when you receive the answer and your correspondent will be even happier.